Question about Outlook Express

I am trying to transfer members of contacts to a contact group i named relatives and friends.  when i get into the adress book with suggested contacts from (my personal e-mail adress) i get the needed list of names which happen to be my friends and relatives.  I then clicked on all the names i wanted  and clicked members on the bottom left of box. and clicked ok. Now yes the names of all those clicked  are listed under friends and relatives when i click on the list logo .  But on the left panel of contacts  is  the group named relatives  and friends,but i cannot click on this group name to get the list to pop up.  What can i do to correct this?