I can't seem to get my songs that I'm listening to from iTunes and Windows Media Player to my MSN Messenger Status. Why is that?

my friends used to be able to see what songs im playing on messenger but they cant now ,i have checked all the boxes that should be ticked and they still are have even been onto windows media player to the plug in bit thats all ok so why cant my friends still see my music?

I have even restored my comp back to a new start date still cant see it so can anyone out there help a damsel in distress lol